Book · 1997 · Social Science
The Denial of Death
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First of all, I would say when I was in high school, I think my father actually encouraged me to read this book. I read Ernest Becker's 'Denial of Death,' which I found, and still find, to be one of the most profound works I’ve ever come across.
David Wolpe · Lex Fridman Podcast · Mar 2022 Listen at 1:41:55 What they say about it
- Won a Pulitzer Prize“won a pulitzer prize”8

- Fear of death as driver“fear of death is really the primary driver”7


- Profound and impactful work“one of the most profound works”4


The best things said about it
I happen to be reading it's a hard book a genuinely difficult book but I'm really enjoying it. I'm reading Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death, highly recommend it to everyone, a Pulitzer after all, you don't need my endorsement.
Andrew Huberman Huberman Lab · Apr 2025 In 1972, Ernest Becker wrote a book, which you'll know all about, the book based on the title called The Denial of Death; he won the Pulitzer Prize for it. And Becker's contention was that we are the only species that at a very early age recognizes that we are only here for a short period of time.
Andrew Huberman Huberman Lab · Oct 2024 Ernest Becker—I'm not sure if you're familiar with the philosopher; he wrote the book 'Denial of Death'—his idea is that one of the core motivations of human beings is our terror of death.
Lex Fridman Lex Fridman Podcast · Jan 2022 There's a book by Ernest Becker. It's called The Denial of Death, and Ernest Becker claims that the human being has one major fear.
Brian Keating The Shawn Ryan Show · Jun 2026 This is essentially a version of Ernest Becker's denial of death hypothesis, which famously suggests that the motivation for a great deal of human behavior is at least human behavior outside of immediate sensory concerns like eating and stuff like that. Anything that humans engage in on a societal level, on an abstract level, is ultimately motivated by an apprehension.
Where and when it comes up
How it comes up
29 people who brought it up
David Wolpe2 episodes · recommended in 2- Sheldon Solomon2 episodes · recommended in 2
Lex Fridman16 episodes · recommended in 1
Andrew Huberman3 episodes · recommended in 1- Brian Greene3 episodes · recommended in 1
- Ben Bowlin2 episodes · recommended in 1
- Clay Routledge1 episode · recommended in 1
Jordan Peterson1 episode · recommended in 1
Michael Shellenberger1 episode · recommended in 1- Nat Eliason1 episode · recommended in 1
- Alex O’Connor1 episode
- Ari Wallach1 episode
Why people recommend it
The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker is a Pulitzer Prize-winning philosophical and psychological study that argues human behavior is fundamentally driven by an unconscious terror of mortality and the subsequent cultural mechanisms created to deny it. On EconTalk, David Wolpe recommended the book as an insightful exploration of death denial, noting Becker's argument that the primary human drive is escaping death rather than sex. Andrew Huberman discussed the challenging text on Huberman Lab, enthusiastically endorsing its exploration of mortality-driven behavior. Ben Bowlin mentioned on Stuff They Don't Want You To Know that fellow podcaster Josh Clark had recommended the book to him years prior. David Wolpe also praised the work on the Lex Fridman Podcast, recalling how his father encouraged him to read it in high school and calling it one of the most profound works he has ever encountered. Brian Greene told the Lex Fridman Podcast about the profound personal influence Becker's ideas had on his understanding of human life. Furthermore, Sheldon Solomon recommended the text on Modern Wisdom and the Lex Fridman Podcast, citing Becker's trilogy as the foundational source for his own terror management theories.
Every mention
David Wolpe I read Ernest Becker's Denial of Death, which I found and still find to be one of the most profound works I… 2
“If you read the incredible, I think, an unbelievably insightful book, Denial of Death by Ernest Becker. He feels that basically Freud was wrong, that the basic drive is not sex, that sex is an aspect of our denial of death.”
“Uh, first of all, I would say when I was in high school, I think my father actually encouraged me to read this book. Uh, I read Ernest Becker's Denial of Death, which I found and still find to be one of the most profound works I've ever come across.”
“I read Ernest Becker's Denial of Death, which I found and still find to be one of the most profound works I've ever come across.”
“First of all, I would say when I was in high school, I think my father actually encouraged me to read this book. I read Ernest Becker's 'Denial of Death,' which I found, and still find, to be one of the most profound works I’ve ever come across.”
Sheldon Solomon and i've put the denial of death out there – um is that his best 2
“cultural anthropologist ernest becker who in the 1970s uh won a pulitzer prize for a book called the denial of death”
“i would say uh that ernest becker's the denial of death or another book called the birth and death of meaning are where we got our ideas from”
“after um weeks before actually he was posthumously awarded the pulitzer prize and non-fiction for his book the denial of death”
“saw some books by a guy i had never heard of ernest becker a cultural anthropologist recently deceased he died in 1974 after weeks before actually he was posthumously awarded the pulitzer prize and non-fiction for his book the denial of death”
“after um weeks before actually he was posthumously sawarded the pulitzer prize and non-fiction for his book the denial of death”
“and the what became escape from evil his wife marie becker finished well be that as it may in it is in the denial of death where becker just says it in the first paragraph i i i believe that the terror of death and the way that human beings respond to it or decline to respond to it is”
“and the what became escape from evil – his wife marie becker finished well be that as it may in it is in the denial of death where becker just says it in the first paragraph i i i believe – that the terror of death and the way that human beings respond to it or decline to respond to”
“and then the denial of death is really more framed from an existential psychodynamic vantage point”
“and – and then the denial of death is really more framed from an existential psychodynamic vantage point”
“here's where we come in where egghead experimental researchers you know becker wrote this book the denial of death and he couldn't get a job”
“you know becker wrote this book the denial of death and he couldn't get a job people just dismissed these ideas as fanciful speculation for which there's no evidence”
“it's like oh we're going to write a book and maybe we'll get to go on tv or something well no that's not the same as to actually think about it in a way that you feel it rather than just think it”
“and so what kierkegaard said is that we need to realize that we've been living a lie of sorts becker calls it a necessary lie and and we have to momentarily dispose of that”
“and at the end of the denial of death becker admits that there's no way to tell while still advocating for what is ultimately a religious stance”
“right and at the end of the denial of death becker admits that there's no way to tell while still advocating for what is ultimately a religious stance”
“he is the shis books are published by the free press and have sold more than any other books sthat they have published”
“and i've put the denial of death out there – um is that his best”
“so the the birth and death of meaning the denial of death and escape from evil are three books of ernest becker's that i believe to all the profound”
Lex Fridman allegedly you wrote an essay on death and consciousness in which you write a note certainly the fear of dea… 16
“Burley brilliant previous guest on this podcast she just released a video where on her bedside was the book denial of death uh by owners Becker which of course you would have on her bedside”
“you know Ernest Becker talked about the in his book denial of death about the fear of death and being an important motivator in our life”
“you know there's uh uh becker with the denial of death like what why do we build castles”
“so ernest becker i'm not sure if you're familiar with the philosopher he wrote the book denial of death”
“Ernest Becker—I'm not sure if you're familiar with the philosopher; he wrote the book 'Denial of Death'—his idea is that one of the core motivations of human beings is our terror of death.”
“so it which is interesting because you do bring up ernest becker in the denial of death in losing the nobel prize book”
“it's book called denal of death”
“allegedly you wrote an essay on death and consciousness in which you write a note certainly the fear of death has been one of the greatest driving forces in the history of thought and in the formation of the character of civilization and yet it is under acknowledged the great book on the subject the denial of death by ernest”
“somebody i've enjoyed reading ernest becker wrote the denial of death”
“And there's also philosopher named ernest becker i don't know if you know that is he wrote denial of death”
“and there's also philosopher named ernest becker i don't know if you know that is he wrote denial of death”
“there's a i don't know if you're familiar there's a philosopher named ernest becker who wrote the denial of death and his whole idea”
“philosopher named ernest becker he wrote a book called denial of death and there's a few psychologists sheldon solomon i think he i just spoke with him on his podcast who developed terror management theory”
“let me say as a side note that ernest becker's book denial of death had a big impact on my thinking about human cognition consciousness and the deep ocean currents of our mind that are behind the surface behaviors we observe”
“you said you picked up becker's book and you know it felt like it was onto something that's the same thing i felt when i picked up becker's book”
“well there's a there's a philosopher ernest becker who wrote a book denial of death”
“well there's a there's a philosopher ernest becker who wrote a book denial of death and just uh uh and warm with the cores”
“have you read the earners Becker's denial of death for example is that Ernest Becker is a philosopher that said that the death that the fear of death is really the primary driver of everything we do”
“for me it was a really interesting moment reading Ernest Becker's denial of death the you know there's this kind of idea that we're all you know the fundamental thing from which most of our human mind Springs is this fear of mortality”
“now that we're running away from a that's a in fact some would argue that the inspiration the incredible ideas you've put out there your TED talk has been seen by millions and millions of people”
Andrew Huberman I happen to be reading it's a hard book a genuinely difficult book but I'm really enjoying it um I'm readin… 3
“Um you know if you read uh the denial of death you learn about this.”
“I happen to be reading it's a hard book a genuinely difficult book but I'm really enjoying it um I'm reading Erns Becker's the denial of death highly recommend it to everyone a Pulitzer after all you don't need my endorsement”
“In 1972, Ernest Becker wrote a book, which you'll know all about, the book based on the title called The Denial of Death; he won the Pulitzer Prize for it. And Becker's contention was that we are the only species that at a very early age recognizes that we are only here for a short period of time, but more”
Brian Greene you know there's this wonderful book that had a great influence in me called the denial of death by ernest… 3
“I read a book I was about in my 20s called The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker. He was a social psychologist”
“you know there's this wonderful book that had a great influence in me called the denial of death by ernest becker”
“and then when I was on and it was in my 20s or 30s I read a book by a guy named Ernest Becker called denial of death”
“and then when I was on and it was in my 20s or 30s I read a book by a guy named Ernest Becker called denial of death I'm have you ever heard of this book”
Ben Bowlin I want to shout out our pal Josh Clark in particular uh for recommending a book to me several years ago den… 2
“the book that we reference there is uh the denial of death”
“I want to shout out our pal Josh Clark in particular uh for recommending a book to me several years ago denial of death”
Clay Routledge that's based on ernest becker's work the denial of death which is a great book i think he's fundamentally w… 1
“that's based on ernest becker's work the denial of death which is a great book i think he's fundamentally wrong but it's a great book nonetheless he's wrong in a very interesting way and he's very very smart person so the denial of death is a great book”
Jordan Peterson and people like Ernest Becker made much of that in his denial of death which is actually really a great book 1
“and people like Ernest Becker made much of that in his denial of death which is actually really a great book”
Michael Shellenberger and i mean i and there's i excite this incredible book by uh vosslav smile 1
“and i mean i and there's i excite this incredible book by uh vosslav smile”
Nat Eliason and then last one I'll throw out would be denial of death by Ernest Becker that's another super interesting… 1
“and then last one I'll throw out would be denial of death by Ernest Becker that's another super interesting one”
“and then last one I'll throw out would be denial of death by Ernest Becker”
Alex O’Connor This is essentially a version of Ernest Becker's denial of death hypothesis, which famously suggests that t… 1
“This is essentially a version of Ernest Becker's denial of death hypothesis, which famously suggests that the motivation for a great deal of human behavior is at least human behavior outside of immediate sensory concerns like eating and stuff like that. Anything that humans engage in on a societal level, on an abstract level, is ultimately motivated by an apprehension”
Ari Wallach 1972 Ernest Becker wrote a book which you'll know all about the book based on the title called the denial o… 1
“1972 Ernest Becker wrote a book which you'll know all about the book based on the title called the denial of death he won the pillar surprise for it”
Brian Keating There's a book by Ernest Becker. It's called The Denial of Death, and Ernest Becker claims that the human b… 1
“There's a book by Ernest Becker. It's called The Denial of Death, and Ernest Becker claims that the human being has one major fear”
Chris Williamson do you know who sheldon solomon is okay so he's an expert in earnest back his denial of death he was on the… 1
“do you know who sheldon solomon is okay so he's an expert in earnest back his denial of death he was on the show a couple of weeks ago and he's oh i have that book”
David Buss it's a fascinating book to read denial of death 1
“it's a fascinating book to read denial of death”
David Eagleman you know i i don't know if you're familiar with a philosopher named ernest becker he wrote a book called de… 1
“you know i i don't know if you're familiar with a philosopher named ernest becker he wrote a book called denial of death”
Douglas Lenat there's a bunch of philosophers like Ernest Becker who kind of think that this realization of mortality and… 1
“there's a bunch of philosophers like Ernest Becker who kind of think that this realization of mortality and then fear sometimes they call it Terror of of of mortality is one of the creative forces behind Human Condition”
Eugenia Kuyda there's a philosopher ernest becker who wrote a book um denial of death i'm not sure if you're familiar wit… 1
“there's a philosopher ernest becker who wrote a book um denial of death i'm not sure if you're familiar with any of those folks”
Jaron Lanier even there there's opportunity to discover beauty now. and so it's that's that's the interesting thing abou… 1
“even there there's opportunity to discover beauty now. and so it's that's that's the interesting thing about humans is the capacity to discover uh beautiful in the darkest of moments but there's always the dark parts too well i mean it's our situation is structurally difficult we are um actually no it is it's true we perceive socially we depend”
Jonathan Karp the denial of death by Ernest Becker what a great way to start a Wednesday 1
“the denial of death by Ernest Becker what a great way to start a Wednesday”
Josh Clark I don't think we talked about the denial of death from 1973 uh but that was from an anthropologist named Er… 1
“I don't think we talked about the denial of death from 1973 uh but that was from an anthropologist named Ernest Becker and uh he was writing this as he was dying himself.”
Konstantin Kisin well i mean think of anyone who's read ernest becker's denial of death like that is about the fact that eve… 1
“well i mean think of anyone who's read ernest becker's denial of death like that is about the fact that everything we do in life is to escape our awareness of death”
Mark Normand Um, it's a book called 'Denial of Death.' This idea that—oh yeah—that—uh, if you don't acknowledge... 1
“Um, it's a book called 'Denial of Death.' This idea that—oh yeah—that—uh, if you don't acknowledge...”
Matt Walsh I mean I read a book there's this um there was a book that was written years ago called Denial of Death. Yo… 1
“I mean I read a book there's this um there was a book that was written years ago called Denial of Death. You ever read that?”
Nathan Finochio I also believe that... there's this book written by a Pulitzer Prize winner. I think his name is Ernest Bec… 1
“I also believe that... there's this book written by a Pulitzer Prize winner. I think his name is Ernest Becker, and the title of it was "The Denial of Death."”
“there's this book written by a Pulitzer Prize winner. I think his name is Ernest Becker, and the title of it was "The Denial of Death." In his book, he's, looking at secularism, and kind of what it's done in modernity,”
Risto Miikkulainen so like there's a i don't know if you're familiar there's a philosopher named ernest becker who wrote the d… 1
“so like there's a i don't know if you're familiar there's a philosopher named ernest becker who wrote the denial of death and his whole idea and there's folks psychologists cognitive scientists that work on terror management theory and they think that one of the special things about humans is that we're able to sort of foresee our death”
Russ Roberts And it reminds me of a great passage from a book that will, I think, I'll mention once or twice in this Ern… 1
“And it reminds me of a great passage from a book that will, I think, I'll mention once or twice in this Ernest Becker's Denial of Death, he has a section where the French writer Alfonso Daudet when he was young, went to a funeral”
Simon Sinek I mean though I think the book is called denial of death is this constant and now that we're running away f… 1
“I mean though I think the book is called denial of death is this constant and now that we're running away from a that's uh in fact some would argue that the inspiration the incredible ideas you've put out there”
Yannis Pappas i i mean i'm with ernest becker as a philosopher uh he wrote a book called denial of death 1
“i i mean i'm with ernest becker as a philosopher uh he wrote a book called denial of death”
“but the real honest one is to fear it because i i i mean i'm with ernest becker as a philosopher uh he wrote a book called denial of death he says that the like much of the human condition is based in the fear of mortality that we like”
Mentioned on the show without a named speaker1
“I really think I'm an intellectual granddaughter of Ernest Becker who famously wrote the denial of death.”
Other mentions (1: passing, ad reads, own books)
“Ernest Becker explored it. In general do you ponder the value of mortality?”