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Matthew Hussey's book recommendations
Key facts
- Matthew Hussey has recommended or discussed 7 books on podcasts, as of August 8, 2024.
- Matthew Hussey has talked about books on 5 podcasts, as of August 8, 2024.
- Those books came up in 6 episodes, as of August 8, 2024.
- The 3 books Matthew Hussey has mentioned in the most episodes, as of August 8, 2024: How to Win Friends and Influence People, Bird by Bird and Four Thousand Weeks.
- The latest episode with a book mention from Matthew Hussey aired on August 8, 2024.
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Across 5 podcasts. Every show Matthew Hussey appears on, in one place — not just one.
Matthew Hussey’s most mentioned books
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott
- Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
- Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
- The happiness advantage by Shawn Achor
- The Talented Mr. Ripley by Patricia Highsmith
- Titanic: A Survivor's Story by Colonel Archibald Gracie
Matthew Hussey is a relationship coach and speaker known for offering advice on dating, attraction, and building long-term romantic relationships. Speaking on Modern Wisdom, Hussey compared his own writing to Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird, noting how a book about a specific craft can ultimately serve as a guide to life. On The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett, he recommended Oliver Burkeman's Four Thousand Weeks, suggesting it functions effectively as a dating book for individuals struggling with commitment and readiness. Hussey also reflected on books from his past. On The Rich Roll Podcast and The Diary Of A CEO, he recalled reading Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People from his father's bookshelf at age eleven or twelve to learn how to connect with people. Additionally, in other podcast appearances, he discussed Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity to explain the dynamics of love and desire, Shawn Achor's The Happiness Advantage in the context of lowering dating activation energy, and the film and story of Titanic as an example of an unhealthy attachment.
Books Matthew Hussey recommended or discussed
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How to Win Friends and Influence People
Discussed“and 11 12 years old I grabbed how to whim Friends and Influence”
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Bird by Bird
Recommended“in the same way that I think of like you know an Lam's Bird by bird it's a book about writing that's kind of about life”
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Four Thousand Weeks
Recommended“oliver burkman who i you may have met i think you maybe interviewed oliver burkman his book for anyone who's struggling with with being ready for commitment is a really powerful book you could read that book as a dating book”
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Mating in Captivity
Discussed“Esther perel has obviously written great books about this she talks about the difference between love and desire desire is love is the coming together of two people desire exists in the space between two people”
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The happiness advantage
Discussed“but you got to get you know as as Sean AER would put it in The Happiness Advantage you have to lower the activation energy required and that can apply for dating too”
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The Talented Mr. Ripley
Discussed“You realize that it's they they kind of, you know, it's that in the talented Mr. Ripley, there's that great line. Oh, that's a great movie. Great movie.”
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Titanic: A Survivor's Story
Discussed“and it can get quite dangerous if you take Titanic like there's something a little odd about watching a woman who's nearly hundred years old still dreaming about and thinking about a relationship that wasn't even a relationship with a guy that she met on a boat and was with for about 5 days”
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Books by Matthew Hussey
Appearances
Other mentions (16: passing, ad reads, own books)
“I even write about it in the book”
“I talk about it in the book is this idea of there being three levels of confidence”
“you want this structure laid out in a way you can go through any time you want which is why I put the entire thing inside my book in a section called core confidence ... Matthew hussy the new book is love life”
“No, I would just say if people go to lovebook.com, not only can you get the book there from any retailer you want, but I'm doing an event on May 4th called Find Your Person, which is designed to be a virtual event. You can do it from wherever you are in the world, wherever you buy the book from.”
“I can sit here with you; I feel like—and this book is a reflection of that.”
“That's why I wrote a chapter in the book called 'Never Satisfied.'”
“It really took until Audrey, who you know—I wrote this book; this was not a book written by a married person; it was a book written first by a single person.”
“So there are many pages in this book that were written by me single, then having met this person, navigating my way through the early dating of all of that.”
“I have a whole chapter in this book called—there are two chapters that go together, that are two of my favorite chapters in the book.”
“One is called 'Never Satisfied,' and the other one is called 'How to Rewire Your Brain.'”
“We think this is the identity that makes us someone important, and I think one of the most valuable exercises in a book I used to teach it on retreats is about layers of confidence.”
“So much of what I used to do at my retreats ended up in this book, and one of the big exercises involves the three layers of confidence.”
“For example, one of the things I talk about in my book is my chronic pain, which I dealt with for years.”
“man honestly the the thing I'm most excited about is the book I have you know you can find me anywhere online on any platform and I've been putting content out for years and years but this this book I've put hundreds and hundreds of hours into so you know if if people go to llife book.com um the book”
“man honestly the the thing I'm most excited about is the book I have you know you can find me anywhere online on any platform and I've been putting content out for years and years but this this book I've put hundreds and hundreds of hours into so you know if if people go to llife book.com um the book”
“If people go to lovelifebook.com, the book is called 'Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What.'”






