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If over half of marriages end in divorce, what are the skills to make sure your relationship stays in the successful 50%? Drs.

John Gottman recommended Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfus and Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, and discussed The Normal Bar by Chrisanna Northrup and others. Steven Bartlett discussed The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and others and Fight Right by Julie Schwartz Gottman and others.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love

    Nancy Dreyfus · at 1:12:08

    Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfus is a practical relationship guide that provides couples with accessible phrases and compassionate communication tools to foster emotional connection and resolve conflicts.

    Where to get it
  2. The Normal Bar

    Chrisanna Northrup; Pepper Schwartz; James Witte · at 1:20:03

    Discussed
    “the biggest study done on this question was done ”
    Where to get it
  3. Come as You Are

    Emily Nagoski · at 1:26:58

    Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski is an educational book focused on female sexuality, intimacy, and relationship communication.

    Recommended
    “there's a wonderful book by Emily ngosi called come as you are that reviews This research ”
    Where to get it
  4. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    John Gottman, PhD; Nan Silver · at 1:44:36

    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver is a relationship guide based on decades of psychological research into what makes marriages succeed or fail.

    Discussed
    “this was in your book the seven principles of of making marriage work ”
    Where to get it
  5. Fight Right

    Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD; John Gottman, PhD · at 1:58:34

    Fight Right by Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman is a relationship guide that offers evidence-based strategies for navigating marital conflict, improving communication, and transforming arguments into opportunities for deeper intimacy rather than emotional destruction.

    Discussed
    “the book is come out I think February 1st M January 30th yeah ah okay why did you write this book why was it so important there's so many things that you could have written about from one of your research but for some reason you wrote a book called fight right why did why”
    Where to get it
Other mentions in this episode (2) — ad reads, self-promotion and passing references, never counted
Plugged The Man's Guide to Women
“yeah we wrote a book called The Man's Guide to women to convey all of these bits of information that have been researched”