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Every book John Gottman recommended on podcasts
John Gottman brings decades of psychological research on relationships, sex, and marital dynamics to his podcast appearances, notably on The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett. In discussing human intimacy and partnership, Gottman recommended Emily Nagoski's Come as You Are, noting that the book reviews critical research demonstrating how women possess distinct prerequisites for eroticism compared to men. To illustrate the mechanics of handling arguments and fostering connection, Gottman highlighted Nancy Dreyfus's Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, praising it as a brilliant guide for executing successful repair attempts during conflicts. Furthermore, he referenced The Normal Bar, authored by Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, and James Witte, to substantiate large-scale global data analyzing tens of thousands of couples across dozens of countries to discern what differentiates couples who report thriving sex lives. Through these citations, Gottman grounds his clinical expertise in comprehensive empirical research and practical relationship literature.
Books recommended by John Gottman
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Come as You Are
Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski is a comprehensive exploration of female sexuality that utilizes contemporary scientific research to demystify desire, stress responses, and sexual wellbeing.
Recommended“there's a wonderful book by Emily ngosi called come as you are that reviews This research ”
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Other mentions (2: passing, ad reads, own books)
“yeah we wrote a book called The Man's Guide to women to convey all of these bits of information that have been researched”
“but the book we wrote eight dates ”