Mentioned in Podcasts

Person

Every book John Gottman recommended on podcasts

Key facts

  • John Gottman has recommended or discussed 3 books on podcasts, as of March 28, 2024.
  • John Gottman has talked about books on 1 podcast, as of March 28, 2024.
  • Those books came up in 1 episode, as of March 28, 2024.
  • The 3 books John Gottman has mentioned in the most episodes, as of March 28, 2024: Come as You Are, Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love and The Normal Bar.
  • The latest episode with a book mention from John Gottman aired on March 28, 2024.

Updated

Guest on The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett · 3 books · 1 episode across 1 podcast

John Gottman brings decades of psychological research on relationships, sex, and marital dynamics to his podcast appearances, notably on The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett. In discussing human intimacy and partnership, Gottman recommended Emily Nagoski's Come as You Are, noting that the book reviews critical research demonstrating how women possess distinct prerequisites for eroticism compared to men. To illustrate the mechanics of handling arguments and fostering connection, Gottman highlighted Nancy Dreyfus's Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, praising it as a brilliant guide for executing successful repair attempts during conflicts. Furthermore, he referenced The Normal Bar, authored by Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, and James Witte, to substantiate large-scale global data analyzing tens of thousands of couples across dozens of countries to discern what differentiates couples who report thriving sex lives. Through these citations, Gottman grounds his clinical expertise in comprehensive empirical research and practical relationship literature.

Books John Gottman recommended or discussed

Who said what is our best reading of each episode. In hand-checked samples, at least 6% of mentions were credited to the wrong speaker, sometimes an interviewer’s line recorded as the guest’s, sometimes the reverse. Every entry below quotes the words and links to the episode, so you can check it.

We earn a commission if you buy through the store links below, at no cost to you.

  1. Come as You Are

    Emily Nagoski · Recommended · 1 episode

    Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski is an educational book focused on female sexuality, intimacy, and relationship communication.

    Recommended
    “there's a wonderful book by Emily ngosi called come as you are that reviews This research ”
    The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of… 2024-03-28 Listen at 1:26:58
    Where to get it
    Listen free with an Audible trialAmazon

  2. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love

    Nancy Dreyfus · Recommended · 1 episode

    Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfus is a practical relationship guide that provides couples with accessible phrases and compassionate communication tools to foster emotional connection and resolve conflicts.

    Where to get it
    Listen free with an Audible trialAmazon

  3. The Normal Bar

    Chrisanna Northrup; Pepper Schwartz; James Witte · Discussed · 1 episode

    Where to get it
    Listen free with an Audible trialAmazon

Books John Gottman wrote

Appearances

EpisodePodcastDateBooks
The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett2024-03-283
Other mentions (4: passing, ad reads, own books)
Plugged Eight Dates
“but we also have one that is eight dates essential conversations for a lifetime of love and that's a great one too”
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Gottman Doctors: Affairs Can Actually Save Your Relationship! But … 2024-09-16 Listen at 2:09:06
Plugged The Man's Guide to Women
“yeah we wrote a book called The Man's Guide to women to convey all of these bits of information that have been researched”
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of… 2024-03-28 Listen at 1:28:42