Book · 2015 · Health & Fitness
Come as You Are
the bestselling guide to the new science that will transform your sex life
Why people recommend it
Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski is a comprehensive exploration of female sexuality that utilizes contemporary scientific research to demystify desire, stress responses, and sexual wellbeing. John Gottman recommended the book on The Diary Of A CEO during the episode titled The Gottman Doctors: Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married in March 2024. While discussing relationship dynamics and intimacy with Steven Bartlett, Gottman brought up the publication as a wonderful resource that thoroughly reviews the relevant scientific research on the subject. He specifically noted that the book demonstrates how women possess a greater number of prerequisites for experiencing eroticism compared to men, using the text to validate his psychological points. Gottman's reference highlighted the book's ability to translate complex academic findings into accessible insights about human intimacy and emotional health. By citing Nagoski's work during the interview, he reinforced the importance of scientifically grounded literature in understanding modern relationships, communication hurdles, and the nuances of human desire, ultimately recommending the text to anyone seeking a deeper, evidence-based comprehension of psychological and sexual health within long-term partnerships.
Who recommended it
- John Gottman Recommended
John Gottman — 1 mention
“there's a wonderful book by Emily ngosi called come as you are that reviews This research ”