Episode · My First Million · 2026-09-18

Books mentioned on Coach for SpaceX & OpenAI destroys your limiting beliefs for 88 minutes straight

7 books · With Joe Hudson · Listen · Watch on YouTube

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Shaan Puri recommended The Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey, and discussed How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie and The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk. Joe Hudson recommended Descartes' Error by Antonio Damasio and Listen by Patty Wipfler and others, and discussed The Tibetan book of living and dying by Sogyal Rinpoche and Dying by Martin Shepard.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. How to Win Friends and Influence People

    Dale Carnegie · at 6:48

    Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People is a classic self-help manual designed to improve interpersonal communication, leadership, and social effectiveness.

    Discussed
    “So that's one of these things where you read a book like how to win friends and influence people and you're like duh that's obvious and it almost becomes a reminder and yet I'm like but how do you tactically make that switch where you say enjoy the relationships not seeking the outcome?”
    Where to get it
  2. The Tibetan book of living and dying

    Sogyal Rinpoche · at 18:18

    The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying by Sogyal Rinpoche offers profound spiritual teachings on mortality, impermanence, and the contemplative preparation for death.

    Discussed
    “The samurai use this the I mean so many traditions use this which is visualizing their own death and they Tibetan book of living and dying samurai and then also what was it is like the Marcus Aurelius.”
    Where to get it
  3. Dying

    Martin Shepard · at 18:18

    Although the provided text touches upon several distinct titles regarding mortality and philosophy, the discussions frequently circle back to classic traditions and texts that grapple with the reality of death.

    Discussed
    “The samurai use this the I mean so many traditions use this which is visualizing their own death and they Tibetan book of living and dying samurai and then also what was it is like the Marcus Aurelius.”
    Where to get it
  4. The Inner Game of Tennis

    W. Timothy Gallwey · at 19:50

    The Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey is a classic sports psychology and self-help guide that explores how mental interference and self-doubt inhibit physical performance and human potential.

    Recommended
    “the inner game of tennis talks a lot about that. Great book.”
    Where to get it
  5. Descartes' Error

    Antonio Damasio · at 22:45

    Descartes' Error by Antonio Damasio is a groundbreaking work of neuroscience that demonstrates how human emotions are fundamentally intertwined with rational decision-making.

    Recommended
    “So, and you can read a book about this. It's called Deart's Error. It was written by a neuroscientist in like 2012 or something.”
    Where to get it
  6. The Body Keeps the Score

    Bessel van der Kolk · at 23:40

    The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk is a deep exploration of how trauma physically impacts the brain and body.

    Discussed
    “I've read The Body Keeps the Score and I like intuitively know that like trauma is a physical thing, but like to put it on a really practical level, you ever get like a slack or an email from a co-orker that says, 'Can we talk?'”
    Where to get it
  7. Listen

    Patty Wipfler; Tosha Schore · at 1:08:19

    Listen is a parenting guide by Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore that offers practical strategies for building emotional connection and supporting children through difficult feelings.

    Recommended
    “I there was this thing called handin-hand parenting which I highly recommend a book called listen which is like one of the most profound practices in my life and that was really where the big emotional understanding started coming in that that like oh I can be with my children in these big emotions and all they need to do”
    Where to get it