Episode · Lenny's Podcast · 2024-09-22

Lenny Rachitsky & Tal Raviv: books mentioned on Lenny's Podcast

Becoming a super IC: Lessons from 12 years as a PM individual contributor | Tal Raviv (Product Lead at Riverside)

5 books · With Tal Raviv · Listen · Watch on YouTube

Tal Raviv is a product manager at Riverside, where he joined as its first PM. Over his 12-year career as an individual contributor, Tal has been an early PM at Patreon, AppsFlyer, and Wix, working in consumer growth, developer API platforms, and pricing.

Tal Raviv recommended How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk by Adele Faber and others, and discussed Drive by Daniel H. Pink, Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss and others, and Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg and others. Lenny Rachitsky recommended Listen by Patty Wipfler and others.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. Drive

    Daniel H. Pink · at 9:04

    Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel H. Pink is an exploration of human motivation that challenges traditional reward systems by emphasizing autonomy, mastery, and purpose.

    Discussed
    “that classic book drive you know motivation comes from autonomy Mastery and purpose and I think for me the IC role it's definitely very autonomous”
    Where to get it
  2. How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk

    Adele Faber; Elaine Mazlish · at 1:19:26

    How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish is a well-known parenting guide focused on improving communication and emotional connection between adults and children.

    Recommended
    “the best book on product management that I've read um is called how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk I encountered this book”
    Where to get it
  3. Never Split the Difference

    Chris Voss; Tahl Raz · at 1:19:46 · mentioned 2 times

    Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss and Tahl Raz is a practical guide to negotiation that draws on the author's extensive experience as an international FBI hostage negotiator, focusing on psychological strategies rather than traditional compromise.

    Discussed
    “if anybody has read uh never split the difference by Chris Voss where he talks about how he like senior FBI agents in 70s were realizing that all they were doing in their like negotiating tactics were just not working”
    Where to get it
  4. Nonviolent Communication

    Marshall B. Rosenberg; Deepak Chopra; Magiarí Díaz Díaz; Alan Rafael Seid Llamas; Rosenberg · at 1:19:58

    Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg is a classic guide to compassionate dialogue, emotional awareness, and effective conflict resolution.

    Discussed
    “and that something is basically non-violent communication and he gives these amazing examples of Decades of using this with kidnappers uh to diffuse situations and uh create productive outcomes”
    Where to get it
  5. Listen

    Patty Wipfler; Tosha Schore · at 1:21:04

    Listen by Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore is a foundational parenting guide focused on the transformative power of listening to children.

    Recommended
    “there's um there's a book that another I'm just going to throw out a book recommendation reverse lighting around on this topic that Joe Hudson recent podcast guest recommended Offline that I found to be incredibly helpful”
    Where to get it