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Book · 2017 · Married people

The State of Affairs

by Esther Perel · Recommended by 1 person on 1 podcast

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Why people recommend it

The State of Affairs by Esther Perel is a psychological exploration of infidelity, examining why people stray and how relationships heal or fracture in the aftermath. On an episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty titled Esther Perel ON: Finding Love & the Real Reason Couples Break Up released on July 12 2021, host Jay Shetty strongly endorsed the work to his listeners. Shetty opened the discussion by expressing deep admiration for the author, stating directly that the text stood out as one of his absolute favorite books written by Perel. He emphasized his appreciation for the insights contained within the pages and explicitly told the audience that he highly recommended the title to anyone navigating the complexities of modern romance and relationship dynamics. Shetty did not delve deeply into specific case studies during this particular exchange, but his enthusiastic praise underscored the profound personal impact the volume had on his understanding of intimacy, betrayal, and human connection, positioning it as an essential read for individuals seeking a deeper comprehension of contemporary partnerships.

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Jay Shetty You write about this. As I said this is one of my favorite books that you've written. I highly recommend it… 1
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“You write about this. As I said this is one of my favorite books that you've written. I highly recommend it to anyone.”
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“and you know I wrote a whole book on on infidelity after 10 years of studying this state of affairs and the one word that I heard all over the world when people would talk about their affairs and I'm there's a ton of different kinds of affairs and I'm in no way romanticizing nor approving nor condoning nor encouraging.”
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“And also to this person read state of affairs because I spent many years writing this book about infidelity and trying to offer a very nuanced perspective on this very subject.”
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“She's also the author of best-selling books such as "Mating in Captivity" and "The State of Affairs."”
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“so the book is the State of Affairs rethinking infidelity”
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“I began State of Affair by going to talk to couples that I had seen five or 10 years earlier to know whatever happens to these people CU I see them in a moment of Crisis and often I don't know afterwards”
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“I started "State of Affair" by talking to couples that I had seen five or ten years earlier. I would see them in a moment of crisis and often didn't know afterwards if they decided to stay together and worked through it.”
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“I mean I put much of this in the state of affairs in the book because I had spent 10 years studying affairs and infidelity.”
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“Her newest book is the New York Times bestseller, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.”
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“Everyone, Esther Perel, the author of The State of Affairs, Rethinking Infidelity, and the author of Mating in Captivity...”
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“if you haven't read my books mating in captivity or the state of affairs you may actually recognize my voice from my podcast”