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Every book Rob Henderson recommended on podcasts

Guest on Modern Wisdom, How I Write, The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast · 23 books · 10 episodes across 3 podcasts

Across 3 podcasts. Every show Rob Henderson appears on, in one place — not just one.

Rob Henderson appears on podcasts such as Modern Wisdom and How I Write, where he discusses his life story, psychological concepts, and sociological theories regarding modern culture. During these podcast appearances, he has recommended several impactful books that influenced his thinking and writing. He praised David D. Gilmore's anthropological study Manhood in the Making, noting how it inspired his ideas regarding manhood rituals and societal pressures placed on young men. Henderson also expressed deep admiration for Tara Westover's memoir Educated, calling it one of the finest memoirs he has ever read, and recommended Eric Berne's classic text on transactional analysis, Games People Play, while discussing essay topics for his Substack. In addition to these direct recommendations, Henderson has discussed and cited other notable books during conversations. He mentioned psychologist Kirk Gray's Outraged when analyzing political perspectives on group struggles, referenced Steven Pinker's How the Mind Works to illustrate dating preferences, and cited Charles Murray's Coming Apart for statistics concerning family structure and social class. He also reflected on memoir writing traditions by discussing Barack Obama's Dreams from My Father and J.D. Vance's Hillbilly Elegy.

Books recommended by Rob Henderson

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  1. Meditations on Violence

    Rory Kane Miller · Discussed · 2 episodes

    Meditations on Violence by Rory Kane Miller is a non-fiction book written by a former law enforcement officer and combatives instructor that analyzes the realities of physical conflict and aggression.

    Discussed
    “yeah so the male monkey dance was uh written by this guy Rory Miller in a book called meditations on violence and in that book so he worked in law enforcement and he compiled interesting research”
    Where to get it
  2. The Goodness Paradox

    Richard Wrangham · Discussed · 2 episodes

    The Goodness Paradox by Richard Wrangham is an evolutionary biology book that investigates the complex relationship between human kindness and meticulously planned violence.

    Discussed
    “yeah yeah I wrote about that when I was discussing uh Richard rangham's book he's the the Harvard evolutionary biologist he wrote a great book called the goodness Paradox”
    Where to get it
  3. The Theory of the Leisure Class

    Thorstein Veblen · Discussed · 2 episodes

    The Theory of the Leisure Class by Thorstein Veblen is a foundational sociological and economic text that examines conspicuous consumption, status symbols, and the behavior of the affluent elite.

    Discussed
    “uh in my writing and my book um work from Thorston Vin at the turn of the 20th century he wrote The Theory of the Leisure Class”
    Where to get it
  4. Educated

    Tara Westover · Recommended · 1 episode

    Educated by Tara Westover is a bestselling memoir that follows the author's remarkable journey growing up in a strict and isolated survivalist family in rural Idaho before eventually escaping to pursue a PhD from Cambridge University.

    Recommended
    “yeah i mean educated was a fantastic book um i mean it was better than my book uh in terms of its quality and its style i'm just like that's maybe one of the best memoirs i've ever read”
    Where to get it
  5. Games People Play

    Eric Berne · Recommended · 1 episode

    Games People Play by Eric Berne is a classic foundational text in transactional analysis that psychoanalyzes the hidden psychological games and routine behavioral patterns underlying everyday human interactions.

    Recommended
    “I want to do a series on this book called games people play it's this classic book on transactional analysis by this uh this guy Eric Byrne”
    Where to get it
  6. Manhood in the Making

    David D. Gilmore · Recommended · 1 episode

    Manhood in the Making by David D.

    Recommended
    “And I think what what may be happening here and and these ideas were inspired by um this amazing book called Manhood in the Making by the anthropologist David Gilmore.”
    Where to get it
  7. Codes of the underworld

    Diego Gambetta · Discussed · 1 episode

    Discussed
    “i've also been reading this book um by diego ambada codes of the underworld about uh criminals and he documents research in prisons and finds that um when prisoners don't know each other fights are way more likely to break out”
    Where to get it
  8. Collision of Wills

    Roger V. Gould · Discussed · 1 episode

    Discussed
    “there was a sociologist roger gould he wrote this book um collision of wills where he actually i mean his whole book is about that specific question about like when is conflict most likely to arise between individuals”
    Where to get it
  9. Coming apart

    Charles A. Murray · Discussed · 1 episode

    Coming Apart by Charles A.

    Discussed
    “um so I cite some statistics from Charles Murray's book coming apart”
    Where to get it
  10. Distinction

    Pierre Bourdieu · Discussed · 1 episode

    Discussed
    “there was a sociologist named Pierre bordeu who wrote a book called distinction a social critique of the Judgment of taste”
    Where to get it
  11. Dreams from My Father

    Barack Obama · Discussed · 1 episode

    Dreams from My Father by Barack Obama is an introspective memoir chronicling the future president's early life, family history, and journey toward self-discovery.

    Discussed
    “Barack Obama wrote Jes for my father I think he was in his early 30s”
    Where to get it
  12. Hillbilly Elegy

    J D Vance · Discussed · 1 episode

    Hillbilly Elegy by J.D.

    Discussed
    “so he told me that he wanted hillbilly LGA to be mostly sociological like this kind of detached almost academic work where he's describing the patterns and pathologies of Appalachia the white working class and so on”
    Where to get it
  13. How the Mind Works

    Steven Pinker · Discussed · 1 episode

    How the Mind Works by Steven Pinker is a comprehensive exploration of evolutionary psychology that investigates how the human brain evolved, how it processes information, and how these mechanisms shape modern human behavior.

    Discussed
    “I always think of this famous this very nice line in in Steven Pinker's famous book, How the Mind Works. And it's something like most women would rather share John F. Kennedy than have Bobo the clown all to themselves.”
    Where to get it
  14. Next Generation HALT and HASS

    Kirk Gray, John James Paschkewitz · Discussed · 1 episode

    Discussed
    “But if marginalized groups aren't doing well, it's it's something wrong with society. And, you know, it's interesting sort of if you break this down politically, there's a really interesting book that just came out uh called Outraged by the psychologist Kirk Gray.”
    Where to get it
  15. The 48 Laws of Power

    Robert Greene, Joost Elffers · Discussed · 1 episode

    The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene and Joost Elffers is a provocative guide examining historical strategies for acquiring and navigating power.

    Discussed
    “there is a there is a uh one of the one of the chapters in in Robert Green's 40 Laws of Power where and the book is about the attainment of power”
    Where to get it
  16. The Power of Bad

    John Tierney, Roy F. Baumeister · Discussed · 1 episode

    The Power of Bad by John Tierney and Roy F.

    Discussed
    “well roy baumeister just has a book it came out i think last year the year before uh something like the power of bad or something”
    Where to get it
  17. The Red Queen

    Matt Ridley · Discussed · 1 episode

    The Red Queen by Matt Ridley is an exploration of evolutionary biology that investigates the mechanics of sexual selection and human nature.

    Discussed
    “so this is I first learned about this I think in Matt Ridley's book the Red Queen this the sexy Sun hypothesis is basically this idea that women are attracted to men who are attractive to other women”
    Where to get it
  18. The Righteous Mind

    Jonathan Haidt · Discussed · 1 episode

    The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt is an insightful exploration of moral psychology that investigates why good people are divided by politics and religion.

    Discussed
    “i saw that jonathan height was giving a talk on campus and i had just read his book the righteous mind about moral psychology which is an interest of mine”
    Where to get it
  19. The Road to Wigan Pier

    George Orwell · Discussed · 1 episode

    The Road to Wigan Pier by George Orwell is a classic work of investigative journalism and social commentary documenting the grueling living conditions of working-class coal miners in northern England during the 1930s.

    Discussed
    “you had that George Orwell quote um you said how in the road to Wigan piia George Orwell's explaining how upper class snobs while theoretically pining for a classless society cling Like Glue to their miserable fragments of social Prestige I love that”
    Where to get it
  20. The Social Leap

    William von Hippel · Discussed · 1 episode

    The Social Leap by William von Hippel is a popular science book exploring human evolutionary history, social behavior, and how our psychological traits adapted from the grasslands to modern civilization.

    Discussed
    “uh i i know that uh william von hippel he writes about this in his book um basically what they did was they had they brought in groups like pairs pairs of people into the lab and had to play a game”
    Where to get it
The other 3 books Rob Henderson recommended or discussed, ranked
  1. The Son Also Rises by Gregory Clark · discussed · 1 episode
  2. Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman · discussed · 1 episode
  3. Yanoama, récit d'une femme brésilienne enlevée par les Indiens by Helena Valero · discussed · 1 episode

Books Rob Henderson wrote

Appearances

EpisodePodcastDateBooks
Is Having a Boyfriend Cringe Now? - Rob Henderson - #1016Modern Wisdom2025-11-061
Why Women Say They Want One Thing But Date Another - Rob HendersonModern Wisdom2025-04-172
How to Tell Your Life Story | Rob HendersonHow I Write2024-08-143
Elite Lies and Luxury Beliefs | Rob Henderson | EP 429The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast2024-03-071
The Real Agenda Of Those In Power - Rob HendersonModern Wisdom2024-02-223
Why Is Everyone Acting Like A Victim? - Rob Henderson - #713Modern Wisdom2023-11-303
How Men Compete For Status - Rob Henderson - #556Modern Wisdom2022-11-244
193. Sex and Dating Apps | Rob HendersonThe Jordan B. Peterson Podcast2021-09-202
Signalling: Why You Do The Things You Do - Rob Henderson - #292Modern Wisdom2021-03-086
Evolution & The Modern Dating Market - Rob Henderson - #161Modern Wisdom2020-04-201
Other mentions (4: passing, ad reads, own books)
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“Uh Rob K. Henderson on Twitter. Uh you can buy my book. It's out in paperback. Troubled by Rob Henderson.”
Plugged Troubled
“You can buy my book. It's out in paperback. Troubled by Rob Henderson.”
Plugged Troubled
“yeah they can get my book troubled uh a mem care family and social class that's you know wherever wherever books are sold”
Plugged Troubled
“so did you know some of this research as I was writing writing my book that'll be out next year and then um I I wrote this essay that's uh that was in the Free Press A couple of years ago which basically”