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Every book Rob Henderson recommended on podcasts
Across 3 podcasts. Every show Rob Henderson appears on, in one place — not just one.
Rob Henderson’s most recommended books
- Meditations on Violence by Rory Kane Miller
- The Goodness Paradox by Richard Wrangham
- The Theory of the Leisure Class by Thorstein Veblen
- Educated by Tara Westover
- Games People Play by Eric Berne
- Manhood in the Making by David D. Gilmore
- Codes of the underworld by Diego Gambetta
- Collision of Wills by Roger V. Gould
- Coming apart by Charles A. Murray
- Distinction by Pierre Bourdieu
Rob Henderson appears on podcasts such as Modern Wisdom and How I Write, where he discusses his life story, psychological concepts, and sociological theories regarding modern culture. During these podcast appearances, he has recommended several impactful books that influenced his thinking and writing. He praised David D. Gilmore's anthropological study Manhood in the Making, noting how it inspired his ideas regarding manhood rituals and societal pressures placed on young men. Henderson also expressed deep admiration for Tara Westover's memoir Educated, calling it one of the finest memoirs he has ever read, and recommended Eric Berne's classic text on transactional analysis, Games People Play, while discussing essay topics for his Substack. In addition to these direct recommendations, Henderson has discussed and cited other notable books during conversations. He mentioned psychologist Kirk Gray's Outraged when analyzing political perspectives on group struggles, referenced Steven Pinker's How the Mind Works to illustrate dating preferences, and cited Charles Murray's Coming Apart for statistics concerning family structure and social class. He also reflected on memoir writing traditions by discussing Barack Obama's Dreams from My Father and J.D. Vance's Hillbilly Elegy.
Books recommended by Rob Henderson
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Meditations on Violence
Meditations on Violence by Rory Kane Miller is a non-fiction book written by a former law enforcement officer and combatives instructor that analyzes the realities of physical conflict and aggression.
Discussed“yeah so the male monkey dance was uh written by this guy Rory Miller in a book called meditations on violence and in that book so he worked in law enforcement and he compiled interesting research”
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The Goodness Paradox
The Goodness Paradox by Richard Wrangham is an evolutionary biology book that investigates the complex relationship between human kindness and meticulously planned violence.
Discussed“yeah yeah I wrote about that when I was discussing uh Richard rangham's book he's the the Harvard evolutionary biologist he wrote a great book called the goodness Paradox”
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The Theory of the Leisure Class
The Theory of the Leisure Class by Thorstein Veblen is a foundational sociological and economic text that examines conspicuous consumption, status symbols, and the behavior of the affluent elite.
Discussed“uh in my writing and my book um work from Thorston Vin at the turn of the 20th century he wrote The Theory of the Leisure Class”
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Educated
Educated by Tara Westover is a bestselling memoir that follows the author's remarkable journey growing up in a strict and isolated survivalist family in rural Idaho before eventually escaping to pursue a PhD from Cambridge University.
Recommended“yeah i mean educated was a fantastic book um i mean it was better than my book uh in terms of its quality and its style i'm just like that's maybe one of the best memoirs i've ever read”
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Games People Play
Games People Play by Eric Berne is a classic foundational text in transactional analysis that psychoanalyzes the hidden psychological games and routine behavioral patterns underlying everyday human interactions.
Recommended“I want to do a series on this book called games people play it's this classic book on transactional analysis by this uh this guy Eric Byrne”
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Manhood in the Making
Manhood in the Making by David D.
Recommended“And I think what what may be happening here and and these ideas were inspired by um this amazing book called Manhood in the Making by the anthropologist David Gilmore.”
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Codes of the underworld
Discussed“i've also been reading this book um by diego ambada codes of the underworld about uh criminals and he documents research in prisons and finds that um when prisoners don't know each other fights are way more likely to break out”
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Collision of Wills
Discussed“there was a sociologist roger gould he wrote this book um collision of wills where he actually i mean his whole book is about that specific question about like when is conflict most likely to arise between individuals”
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Coming apart
Coming Apart by Charles A.
Discussed“um so I cite some statistics from Charles Murray's book coming apart”
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Distinction
Discussed“there was a sociologist named Pierre bordeu who wrote a book called distinction a social critique of the Judgment of taste”
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Dreams from My Father
Dreams from My Father by Barack Obama is an introspective memoir chronicling the future president's early life, family history, and journey toward self-discovery.
Discussed“Barack Obama wrote Jes for my father I think he was in his early 30s”
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Hillbilly Elegy
Hillbilly Elegy by J.D.
Discussed“so he told me that he wanted hillbilly LGA to be mostly sociological like this kind of detached almost academic work where he's describing the patterns and pathologies of Appalachia the white working class and so on”
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How the Mind Works
How the Mind Works by Steven Pinker is a comprehensive exploration of evolutionary psychology that investigates how the human brain evolved, how it processes information, and how these mechanisms shape modern human behavior.
Discussed“I always think of this famous this very nice line in in Steven Pinker's famous book, How the Mind Works. And it's something like most women would rather share John F. Kennedy than have Bobo the clown all to themselves.”
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Next Generation HALT and HASS
Discussed“But if marginalized groups aren't doing well, it's it's something wrong with society. And, you know, it's interesting sort of if you break this down politically, there's a really interesting book that just came out uh called Outraged by the psychologist Kirk Gray.”
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The 48 Laws of Power
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene and Joost Elffers is a provocative guide examining historical strategies for acquiring and navigating power.
Discussed“there is a there is a uh one of the one of the chapters in in Robert Green's 40 Laws of Power where and the book is about the attainment of power”
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The Power of Bad
The Power of Bad by John Tierney and Roy F.
Discussed“well roy baumeister just has a book it came out i think last year the year before uh something like the power of bad or something”
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The Red Queen
The Red Queen by Matt Ridley is an exploration of evolutionary biology that investigates the mechanics of sexual selection and human nature.
Discussed“so this is I first learned about this I think in Matt Ridley's book the Red Queen this the sexy Sun hypothesis is basically this idea that women are attracted to men who are attractive to other women”
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The Righteous Mind
The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt is an insightful exploration of moral psychology that investigates why good people are divided by politics and religion.
Discussed“i saw that jonathan height was giving a talk on campus and i had just read his book the righteous mind about moral psychology which is an interest of mine”
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The Road to Wigan Pier
The Road to Wigan Pier by George Orwell is a classic work of investigative journalism and social commentary documenting the grueling living conditions of working-class coal miners in northern England during the 1930s.
Discussed“you had that George Orwell quote um you said how in the road to Wigan piia George Orwell's explaining how upper class snobs while theoretically pining for a classless society cling Like Glue to their miserable fragments of social Prestige I love that”
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The Social Leap
The Social Leap by William von Hippel is a popular science book exploring human evolutionary history, social behavior, and how our psychological traits adapted from the grasslands to modern civilization.
Discussed“uh i i know that uh william von hippel he writes about this in his book um basically what they did was they had they brought in groups like pairs pairs of people into the lab and had to play a game”
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The other 3 books Rob Henderson recommended or discussed, ranked
- The Son Also Rises by Gregory Clark
- Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
- Yanoama, récit d'une femme brésilienne enlevée par les Indiens by Helena Valero
Books Rob Henderson wrote
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Other mentions (4: passing, ad reads, own books)
“Uh Rob K. Henderson on Twitter. Uh you can buy my book. It's out in paperback. Troubled by Rob Henderson.”
“You can buy my book. It's out in paperback. Troubled by Rob Henderson.”
“yeah they can get my book troubled uh a mem care family and social class that's you know wherever wherever books are sold”
“so did you know some of this research as I was writing writing my book that'll be out next year and then um I I wrote this essay that's uh that was in the Free Press A couple of years ago which basically”


















