Episode · Modern Wisdom · 2024-04-13

Chris Williamson & David Brooks: books mentioned on Modern Wisdom #770

Why Is Everyone So Emotionally Detached? - David Brooks - #770

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David Brooks is a columnist for The New York Times and an author. We’re often told to control our emotions, but is that actually what we want?

Chris Williamson recommended Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright, and discussed The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday, and The Art of Resilience by Ross Edgley. David Brooks recommended Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl, and discussed The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson and You're Not Listening by Kate Murphy.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. Why Buddhism is True

    Robert Wright · at 7:01

    Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright is an exploration of evolutionary psychology and ancient Buddhist philosophy that examines how the human mind creates suffering and how mindfulness can alter our perception of reality.

    Recommended
    “I just kept I I kept on seeing the same patterns come up in my personal relationships in the way that I deal with my business in how I feel when I record the podcast sitting in discomfort especially emotionally … there's this really phenomenal quote I took from … Robert Wes why Buddhism is true and he says is”
    Where to get it
  2. The Obstacle Is the Way

    Ryan Holiday · at 11:47

    The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday is a popular modern guide to applying ancient Stoic philosophy to overcome adversity, drawing inspiration from historical figures who turned trials into triumphs.

    Discussed
    “Ryan's book ego the enemy obstacles the way both been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  3. Ego Is the Enemy

    Ryan Holiday · at 11:47

    Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday is a philosophical exploration of how unchecked ambition, arrogance, and a bloated sense of self-importance can derail success and personal fulfillment.

    Discussed
    “Ryan's book ego the enemy obstacles the way both been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  4. The Art of Resilience

    Ross Edgley · at 11:47

    The Art of Resilience by Ross Edgley is a powerful exploration of physical and mental endurance drawn from the author's historic swim around Great Britain.

    Discussed
    “this whole sort of stoicism movement massive fan of it art of resilience by Ross Edgley … have been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  5. Man's Search for Meaning

    Viktor E. Frankl · at 45:52

    Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl is an influential psychological account by a Holocaust survivor exploring how individuals can find purpose and endure extreme circumstances.

    Recommended
    “and then there's a I read about this later … from the classic book which I hope everybody's read called man search for meaning by Victor Frankl”
    Where to get it
  6. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

    Mark Manson · at 47:32

    The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson is a popular self-help guide that uses blunt counterintuitive wisdom to help readers prioritize what truly matters in life.

    Discussed
    “and you mentioned social media my view in social media it's judgment everywhere understanding nowhere … and there's books out now the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] and and girl wash your face”
    Where to get it
  7. You're Not Listening

    Kate Murphy · at 58:34

    Discussed
    “there's a classic example of this I read about in a book called you're not listening by a woman named Kate Murphy and she's describing this focus group leader”
    Where to get it
Other mentions in this episode (2) — ad reads, self-promotion and passing references, never counted
Plugged The social animal
“so I wanted to learn about emotions so I wrote a book about emotions called The Social Animal years ago”
Passing Girl, Wash Your Face
“and there's books out now the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] and and girl wash your face”