Episode · Modern Wisdom · 2024-04-13

Books mentioned on Why Is Everyone So Emotionally Detached? - David Brooks - #770

7 books · With David Brooks · Listen · Watch on YouTube

David Brooks is a columnist for The New York Times and an author. We’re often told to control our emotions, but is that actually what we want?

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

  1. Why Buddhism is True

    Robert Wright · at 7:01

    Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright is a popular science book that explores how evolutionary psychology and Buddhist philosophy intersect to explain why meditation and mindfulness work.

    Recommended
    “I just kept I I kept on seeing the same patterns come up in my personal relationships in the way that I deal with my business in how I feel when I record the podcast sitting in discomfort especially emotionally … there's this really phenomenal quote I took from … Robert Wes why Buddhism is true and he says is”
    Where to get it
  2. The Art of Resilience

    Ross Edgley · at 11:47

    The Art of Resilience by Ross Edgley is a physical and mental conditioning guide detailing the author's extreme endurance feats and methods for developing mental toughness.

    Discussed
    “this whole sort of stoicism movement massive fan of it art of resilience by Ross Edgley … have been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  3. Ego Is the Enemy

    Ryan Holiday · at 11:47

    Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday is a non-fiction book that argues how humility, ambition, and self-awareness are critical to overcoming personal and professional obstacles.

    Discussed
    “Ryan's book ego the enemy obstacles the way both been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  4. The Obstacle Is the Way

    Ryan Holiday · at 11:47

    The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday is a popular guide to applying Stoic philosophy to overcome severe life challenges and turn obstacles into advantages.

    Discussed
    “Ryan's book ego the enemy obstacles the way both been really formative for me”
    Where to get it
  5. Man S Search For Meaning

    Viktor Emil Frankl · at 45:52

    Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Emil Frankl is a profound psychological memoir and analysis detailing the author's survival in Nazi concentration camps and his formulation of logotherapy.

    Recommended
    “and then there's a I read about this later … from the classic book which I hope everybody's read called man search for meaning by Victor Frankl”
    Where to get it
  6. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

    Mark Manson · at 47:32

    The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson is a pragmatic guide to personal development that encourages readers to carefully choose what matters to them rather than striving for artificial positivity.

    Discussed
    “and you mentioned social media my view in social media it's judgment everywhere understanding nowhere … and there's books out now the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] and and girl wash your face”
    Where to get it
  7. You're Not Listening

    Kate Murphy · at 58:34

    Discussed
    “there's a classic example of this I read about in a book called you're not listening by a woman named Kate Murphy and she's describing this focus group leader”
    Where to get it
Other mentions in this episode (2) — ad reads, self-promotion and passing references, never counted
Own book The social animal
“so I wanted to learn about emotions so I wrote a book about emotions called The Social Animal years ago”
Passing Girl, Wash Your Face
“and there's books out now the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] and and girl wash your face”