Episode · Breaking Points · 2025-04-15

Books mentioned on Saagar: I'M HAVING A BABY

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Saagar Enjeti recommended Expecting better by Emily Oster and Cribsheet by Emily Oster, and discussed The First Forty Days by Heng Ou and others, Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman, The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt, The Self-driven Child by William R. Stixrud and others, and Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. Expecting better

    Emily Oster · at 0:57

    Expecting Better by Emily Oster is a data-driven look at pregnancy that uses economic research to evaluate conventional wisdom and restrictions.

    Recommended
    “For this, there is a rightfully famous book I cannot recommend enough. It's called Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom is Wrong and What You Really Need to Know by Professor Emily Austster.”
    Where to get it
  2. Cribsheet

    Emily Oster · at 2:36

    Cribsheet by Emily Oster is a data-driven parenting book that analyzes the empirical research behind early childhood development, sleep, potty training, and nutrition.

    Recommended
    “And that is why I am urging any expectant parent read these books and her follow-up crib sheet.”
    Where to get it
  3. The First Forty Days

    Heng Ou, Amely Greeven, Marisa Belger · at 4:31

    Discussed
    “By reading books such as the first 40 days, I learned this is not normal in the rest of the world.”
    Where to get it
  4. Bringing Up Bébé

    Pamela Druckerman · at 5:34 · mentioned 2 times

    Discussed
    “It's called Bringing Up Bay. One American mother discovers the wisdom of French parenting. And as loathed as I will be to praise Europeans, it is undeniable after reading this that a Western society that can encourage women to be able to pursue careers without Asian collectivist values can absolutely work.”
    Where to get it
  5. The Anxious Generation

    Jonathan Haidt · at 7:03

    The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt investigates how the transition from play-based childhoods to phone-based, hyper-connected environments has triggered severe mental health crises among young people.

    Discussed
    “How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”
    Where to get it
  6. The Self-driven Child

    William R. Stixrud, Ned Johnson · at 7:03

    The Self-driven Child by William R. Stixrud and Ned Johnson is a parenting guide focused on fostering independence, resilience, and motivation in children and adolescents, particularly during their middle and high school years.

    Discussed
    “How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”
    Where to get it
  7. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother

    Amy Chua · at 7:03

    Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua is a provocative memoir that examines strict parenting philosophies, cultural differences in academic drive, and the demands of immigrant parenting models.

    Discussed
    “How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”
    Where to get it
Other mentions in this episode (3) — ad reads, self-promotion and passing references, never counted
Passing The Anxious Generation
“Finally, for fun and letting my mind wander, I read a bunch of different books that won't apply for many years. You may find them useful if you're at this age. How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”
Passing The Self-driven Child
“Finally, for fun and letting my mind wander, I read a bunch of different books that won't apply for many years. You may find them useful if you're at this age. How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”
Passing Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
“Finally, for fun and letting my mind wander, I read a bunch of different books that won't apply for many years. You may find them useful if you're at this age. How to raise kids who aren't The Anxious Generation, The Self-driven Child, and even throwbacks like Battle Him of the Tiger Mother.”