Episode · No Stupid Questions · 2023-11-26

Books mentioned on 149. Is It Harder to Make Friends as an Adult? (Replay)

4 books · With Gabrielle Hamilton · Listen · Watch on YouTube

How do friendships change as we get older? Should you join a bowling league?

Angela Duckworth discussed Bowling Alone by Robert D. Putnam and Blood, Bones, & Butter by Gabrielle Hamilton. Mike Maughan discussed The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg. Also mentioned: Grit by Angela Duckworth.

Books mentioned, in the order they came up

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  1. Bowling Alone

    Robert D. Putnam · at 10:17 · mentioned 2 times

    Bowling Alone by Robert D. Putnam is a seminal sociological study that examines the dramatic decline of social capital, community organizations, and civic engagement in American society over the latter half of the twentieth century.

    Discussed
    “Bob putam who wrote bowling alone about how as you know I guess Mike that Americans are spending time alone”
    Where to get it
  2. The Great Good Place

    Ray Oldenburg · at 11:30 · mentioned 2 times

    The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg is a sociological examination of informal public gathering spaces that foster community life outside the home and workplace.

    Discussed
    “Ray oldenberg who wrote The Great good place and talked about the loss of third places”
    Where to get it
  3. Blood, Bones, & Butter

    Gabrielle Hamilton · at 32:11 · mentioned 3 times

    Blood, Bones, & Butter by Gabrielle Hamilton is a celebrated food memoir that details the author's unconventional path to becoming a chef and running her restaurant.

    Discussed
    “and of course I read blood bones and butter chefing if it's even a verb chefing”
    Where to get it
  4. Grit

    Angela Duckworth · at 50:42

    Grit by Angela Duckworth is a popular psychology book that explores the profound importance of passion and perseverance in achieving long-term success.

    Discussed
    “in the second half of the show Angela shares that she wrote only one book grit and won't write another because the first nearly killed her”
    Where to get it
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Passing Grit
“Angela shares that she wrote only one book, Grit, and won't write another because the first nearly killed her; she is now in the middle of writing her second book.”