Book · 1988 · Marriage
Getting the love you want
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I read, well, I had, you know, I had Harville on here and like whenever he wrote Getting the Love You Want. Yeah. I would not still be in relationship with seven and had I not read that book.
Oprah Winfrey · Oprah's Super Soul · Oct 2026 The best things said about it
So there's a book called getting the love you want it was like huge I think in the 90s and then maybe the early 2000s.
I have found the book Getting the Love You Want and some of the frameworks asking for redos, having a shared language that allows you to, I suppose, resolve things with shorthand, but agreeing upfront that you are going to have that shared language and those practices at least for a period of time as an experiment, I think is.
Tim Ferriss The Tim Ferriss Show · Nov 2023 Where and when it comes up
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Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix is a renowned relationship guide that introduces transformative communication tools and psychological frameworks for couples seeking deeper connection. On Oprah's Super Soul, Oprah Winfrey and guest Alanis Morissette discussed the profound personal impact of the book, with Oprah remarking that she would not still be in her relationship had she not read it after hosting the author on her program. On The Tim Ferriss Show, Tim Ferriss highlighted the title as an essential resource, praising specific frameworks such as asking for redos and establishing a shared language that allows partners to resolve conflicts more effectively and maintain shorthand communication. On The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett, Marie Forleo also brought up the famous 1990s and early 2000s bestseller, describing it as a game-changing resource that she and her partner Josh utilized to build a healthy relationship. Across multiple podcasts, high-profile hosts and guests repeatedly pointed to the book as a cornerstone of relationship psychology, praising its lasting utility and practical strategies for resolving interpersonal conflicts and fostering enduring emotional intimacy.
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Marie Forleo so there's a book called getting the love you want it was like huge I think in the 90s and then maybe the e… 1
“so there's a book called getting the love you want it was like huge I think in the 90s and then maybe the early 2000s”
Oprah Winfrey I read, well, I had, you know, I had Harville on here and like whenever he wrote Getting the Love You Want.… 1
“I read, well, I had, you know, I had Harville on here and like whenever he wrote Getting the Love You Want. Yeah. I would not still be in relationship with seven and had I not read that book.”
Tim Ferriss I have found the book Getting the Love You Want and some of the frameworks asking for redos, having a share… 1
“I have found the book Getting the Love You Want and some of the frameworks asking for redos, having a shared language that allows you to, I suppose, resolve things with shorthand, but agreeing upfront that you are going to have that shared language and those practices at least for a period of time as an experiment, I think is”
