Book · 2017 · Religion
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition
When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life
Why people recommend it
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition by Henry Cloud and John Townsend is a foundational psychological guide that teaches individuals how to establish healthy personal limits while maintaining meaningful relationships. On The Dr. John Delony Show, host Dr. John Delony frequently recommended the book to callers dealing with difficult family dynamics, such as a parent struggling to cut ties with a coddled adult child. Delony highlighted a classic lesson from the opening chapters of the book, reminding his audience that allowing a loved one to face consequences is often the greatest gift a parent can provide. In later episodes, Delony reflected on the core concepts of boundary-setting, noting that many people have drifted away from the original ideas established by his friend Henry Cloud years ago. He emphasized that proper boundaries are ultimately designed to keep people connected rather than push them away. Through these thoughtful discussions, Delony reinforced the enduring value of the text as an essential roadmap for emotional health and interpersonal communication.
Who recommended it
- Dr John Delony Recommended
Dr John Delony — 3 mentions
“and they've gotten further further away from the original idea that you written about that my buddy Henry Cloud wrote about years ago like that boundaries are a way to to make sure you're staying connected with people”
“Henry Cloud, if you haven't read the book Boundaries, the it's one of the first stories in the book, but and Henry's a great buddy of mine, but the classic line in that opening story is the greatest gift you could give your son is some problems.”
“And I love what Becky Kennedy says. Boundaries require nothing of another person. They're what I'm going to do.”