Cover of The Gap and The Gain

Book · 2021 · Business & Economics

The Gap and The Gain

The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

by Dr. Benjamin Hardy, Dan Sullivan · Recommended by 2 people on 2 podcasts

Why people recommend it

The Gap and The Gain by Dr. Benjamin Hardy and Dan Sullivan is a self-improvement book designed to help readers measure their progress backward against where they started rather than forward against an idealized standard, thereby reducing self-criticism and regret. Chris Williamson recommended the title on Modern Wisdom to help listeners avoid falling into negative self-talk and feeling inadequate during their personal development journeys. Later, Ron Babcock discussed the book on ChooseFI after discovering it through an email newsletter. Babcock explained to the host how the core principles of the book significantly shifted his mindset about success and personal achievement. As someone who spent years performing stand-up comedy and battling persistent feelings of regret, Babcock shared that the book's central message hit him very hard and fundamentally helped him reframe his perspective on his life choices. Across these podcast episodes, speakers emphasized the practical psychological value of the book's framework, highlighting its effectiveness in combating toxic self-comparison and fostering a healthier, more appreciative outlook on both professional and personal growth.

Who recommended it

Ron Babcock — 4 mentions
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“I was reading that I think I found out about it through the the email newsletter but that Gap in the gain book”
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“I was reading that I think I found out about it through the the email newsletter but that Gap in the gain book”
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“but the Gap in the gain that one like Hit me hard it just for me is somebody who like I mean God and do standup comedy like all my life is Regret”
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“but the Gap in the gain that one like Hit me hard it just for me is somebody who like I mean God and do standup comedy like all my life is Regret”
Chris Williamson — 2 mentions
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