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Book · 1993 · Man-woman relationships

On love

by Alain De Botton · Recommended by 2 people on 2 podcasts

Why people recommend it

On Love by Alain de Botton is a philosophical novel that explores the psychological mechanics, romantic ideals, and painful sensations of falling and being in love. On an episode of How I Write titled Why Suffering Fuels Creativity, author Alain de Botton explained to host David Perell that he wrote his very first book—published in the United States as On Love and in various other parts of the world as Essays in Love—as an earnest attempt to understand the intense and often confounding sensations surrounding romantic attachment. Botton discussed how exploring these emotional vulnerabilities formed the foundation of his early literary career. Additionally, the book was mentioned on the Lex Fridman Podcast during an episode titled Sarma Melngailis: Bad Vegan, where Sarma Melngailis and Lex Fridman briefly discussed the short work by the author. Both podcast conversations reflected on the accessibility and psychological depth of Botton's exploration of romance, highlighting how his unique blend of narrative fiction and philosophical commentary provides readers with a relatable framework for navigating the often bewildering complexities of human relationships and heartbreak.

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Alain de Botton — 1 mention
Discussed
“So I wrote my first book which in the United States was called on love and in the uh many other parts of the world was called essays in love and that was an attempt to understand sensations around love”
Sarma Melngailis — 1 mention
Discussed
“no it's called on love all right i can't wait but i'm gonna read the cliff notes bye it's short by this guy named alan de botton”

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